Squirting is one of those mysterious, steamy topics that gets a lot of attention – and just as many questions. What is squirting? Is it real? Is it wee? Can anyone do it? And more importantly… how do you make it happen?
At Sinful, we believe pleasure should be joyful, juicy and never shrouded in shame or misinformation. So in this guide, you’ll get the honest, no-nonsense (but still naughty) answers to your squirting questions. From what it feels like to how to squirt, the best positions to try, plus product recommendations, expert tips and tricks to help you unlock this form of pleasure – we’ve got you covered. And yes, we'll answer every burning FAQ at the end.
What is Squirting?
Squirting – also called female ejaculation – is when fluid is released from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm. This can happen during penetration, intense G-spot stimulation, or even external play in some cases.
The fluid itself is often clear or slightly milky, and it can vary in amount – from a dribble to a full-on gush. Despite common myths, squirting is not the same as urination, although it does come from the same place (your urethra). Studies have shown that the fluid can contain traces of urea, but it's also made up of secretions from the Skene’s glands – often dubbed the "female prostate".
The term "squirting" is used because of the way the fluid is sometimes released – it can literally squirt or spurt out of the body in a noticeable gush. It’s a descriptive and slightly cheeky word that’s become popular in both sex-positive spaces and porn, but medically speaking, it's part of what's called female ejaculation.
But most importantly? It’s a natural response to pleasure. Full stop.
What Does Squirting Feel Like?
This one’s tricky because everyone experiences squirting differently. For some, it’s an intense release – a mix of pressure, pleasure and relief all at once. Others say it feels like a deep internal orgasm with a build-up that mimics the feeling of needing to pee (we’ll come back to that!).
You might feel a sudden wave of heat or a sensation of something pushing out from inside. Some people squirt during orgasm, while others can squirt without climaxing at all. And yes – you can even squirt more than once in a session.
If it doesn’t feel earth-shattering straight away, don’t worry. Like any part of sex, it can take time and the right mindset to explore what feels good for you.
How to Squirt – Step-by-Step
Ready to try it for yourself? Squirting isn’t about forcing anything – it’s about exploring what turns you on and letting your body take the lead. Here’s how to give it your best shot:
1. Relax
Seriously – this is rule number one. Tension is the enemy of pleasure. Set the mood, light a candle, put on something sexy (or nothing at all) and breathe deeply. You need to feel safe, comfortable, and unhurried.
2. Empty your bladder first
Squirting can feel similar to needing a wee – so having a quick trip to the loo beforehand helps you relax without that anxious “oh no” feeling halfway through.
3. Lube up
You’ll want lots of lube. The wetter, the better. Water-based lube is perfect for squirting play – it's gentle and safe with all toys. If you're experimenting with a new squirting technique, the added glide makes everything smoother, more comfortable, and a lot more fun.
4. Focus on the G-spot
Squirting is often linked to G-spot stimulation. That’s the spongy, ridged area about 5–8cm inside the front wall of the vagina. Use your fingers in a “come here” motion, or try a curved G-spot toy for extra reach and pressure.
5. Apply firm, rhythmic pressure
Light fluttery touches probably won’t do the trick here. Most people need deeper, consistent stimulation to build up pressure. Think of it like a wave – slow and steady, with increasing intensity.
6. Let go of control
That pressure building up? That sensation of “uh-oh, I might pee”? That’s actually a sign you’re close. Trust your body, keep breathing, and don’t fight the feeling.
7. Enjoy the mess
It might be a dribble or a dramatic gush. Either way, celebrate it! Lay down a towel if you’re worried about the sheets – Sinful has waterproof sex sheets and blankets if you fancy getting extra comfy.
Best (Sex) Positions for Squirting
While you can squirt in almost any position, these ones are particularly helpful if you’re just starting out:
Flat on your back with knees up
This gives the best access to your G-spot – especially if your partner (or your toy) uses a firm, curved motion. Pop a pillow under your bum to elevate your pelvis slightly.
Froggy squat
This one’s a bit more advanced but great for letting gravity help things along. Crouch down over a towel, legs wide apart, and use fingers or a sex toy from above. It gives a direct angle to the G-spot and often makes squirting easier.
Partnered G-spot play
If someone else is helping, they can use two fingers with a firm upward motion while you lie back and focus on relaxing. Communication is key – don’t be afraid to guide them.
On all fours (doggy style)
It might not give you the same angle to reach the G-spot directly, but with the right toy (or penis), the thrusting can create a build-up that leads to squirting too.
5 Squirting Tips You Need to Know
Ready to take your squirting orgasms to the next level? These 5 simple but effective squirting tips will help you get more comfortable, more confident, and more likely to experience that juicy release.
1. It’s not a goal – it’s a bonus
The more pressure you put on yourself to squirt, the harder it will be. Focus on what feels good and let the rest happen naturally.
2. Hydration helps
Drink plenty of water beforehand. Your body needs fluid to make fluid, after all.
3. Use a toy made for the job
Look for a G-spot dildo or vibrator with a curved tip or firm pressure - it is ideal as a squirting sex toy.
4. Let go of the ‘pee’ fear
That full feeling is normal – and the fluid isn’t wee. Keep a towel handy and go with the flow (literally).
5. Aftercare matters
A big release can leave you feeling floaty, emotional, or just knackered. Cuddle up, clean up, and take your time coming back to earth. And if you didn’t squirt this time, remember – it often takes practice and a squirting technique that works for your body.
Recommended Products for Squirting Play
If you're looking for the best sex toy to squirt, it all comes down to firm pressure, the right curve, and a toy that makes you feel comfortable and in control. Everyone’s body is different, but these top picks can help you discover your squirting sweet spot - and protect your bedding while you're at it.
Frisky Bang Her G-spot Finger Vibrator
This clever little finger vibrator is a game-changer for precision G-spot stimulation. Designed to fit comfortably over your finger, it turns your hand into a powerful pleasure tool with targeted vibrations exactly where you want them. Perfect for beginners and pros alike, it’s small, discreet, and easy to control – which is especially handy when you're right on the edge of a squirting orgasm.
"Gives my darling squirting orgasms that she never had before. We simply love it. Very easy to use."
– Micke Pettersson, 23. Feb. 2022
Sinful Slim Curve Rechargeable G-spot Vibrator
Slim, curved and rechargeable – this sleek G-spot vibrator from Sinful delivers strong vibrations in a size that’s just right for solo or partner play. Its gently arched shape makes it ideal for exploring your G-spot and experimenting with different levels of pressure. With multiple settings, it's perfect for building up to a release at your own pace.
"Pleasant, good size and several settings. Works well to use alone and together with a partner."
– LP, 6. Sep. 2025
Njoy Pure Wand
An absolute icon when it comes to G-spot stimulation – and with good reason. Made from solid stainless steel, the Pure Wand is weighty, firm, and perfectly curved to help you apply pressure exactly where it counts. It’s easy to use solo or with a partner, and can be heated or cooled to enhance your experience. Many people say it’s the best sex toy to squirt – and they’re not wrong.
"Pure Wand helped me, as a beginner in G-spot stimulation, achieve my first orgasms through it. It is easy to use both alone and with my partner, and I've only had positive experiences with it! Additionally, it is completely durable and made from a wonderful, heavy material that can be both cooled and heated up - and retains the temperature for a long time. The experience of receiving the package was also luxurious, and I still use the box it came in for storage :) I can only recommend the Pure Wand!"
– Laura, 22. Mar. 2025
Sinful Waterproof Cuddle Blanket
Squirting can get messy – in the best way. But if you’d rather keep the clean-up to a minimum, the Sinful Waterproof Cuddle Blanket has got your back (and your bed). Soft, cosy and completely leakproof, it’s ideal for any kind of wet and wild play – from squirting to massage oils and everything in between.
"Great for oil play and massive squirting orgasms – it’s been thoroughly tested and stays completely leakproof, a really excellent product."
– SM, 12. Nov. 2025
FAQ: All Your Squirting Questions Answered
Still got questions? You’re definitely not alone. Here are the answers to the most common curiosities about squirting – no shame, just honest info.
Is squirting normal?
Completely! Some people squirt often, some never do – it’s all natural. Think of it as just another way your body can respond to pleasure.
Is squirting healthy?
Yes. There's nothing harmful about squirting. In fact, it can feel amazing and even help release tension. As long as you're comfortable, it’s all good.
Is squirting an orgasm?
Not always. Some people squirt without climaxing, while others squirt as part of an intense orgasm. They can happen together – but they’re not the same thing.
How does squirting work?
It’s all down to stimulation of the urethral sponge and the Skene’s glands – areas near the G-spot. When these are aroused enough, they can release fluid through the urethra.
What’s the difference between cumming and squirting?
“Cumming” usually refers to orgasm – that peak moment of intense pleasure. Squirting is a physical release of fluid, which may or may not come with an orgasm. Think of them as two different fireworks in the same sky.
Is squirting urine?
Squirting fluid does come out of the urethra, which is the same place urine exits, and it can contain small traces of urea. But it’s not the same as urine. The fluid also comes from the Skene’s glands, which produce a different kind of secretion during arousal.
What is the best vibrator for squirting?
The best vibrator for squirting is usually one with a curved tip, firm structure, and strong rumbly vibrations for deep G-spot stimulation. The Frisky Bang Her G-spot Finger Vibrator and the Njoy Pure Wand are both favourites among those who’ve learned how to squirt. If you’re just starting out, a more beginner-friendly option like the Sinful Slim Curve G-spot Vibrator can help you explore at your own pace.
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