Guide: How to give sex toys – without it getting awkward
Giving gifts to your partner can be tricky enough on its own – no matter the occasion. But how do you give sex toys without it turning into an awkward experience?
Our guide prepares you properly to spoil your partner with the naughtiest gifts, without anyone cringing.
If you need extra gift inspiration, check out our guide where we help you find the perfect gift for the right person.
#1 Get to know your partner’s needs
Find out what your partner enjoys in the bedroom. Do they love gadgets and tech? Are they hopeless romantics? Does their home look like a page from an interior design magazine? Maybe there’s something you’d like to try together. No matter what, there’s something for every taste.
Sit down together and talk about the things you’d like to explore. Create a safe space and ask your partner what they’re curious about. It’s a great way to get to know each other better – and discover what turns you both on. It also makes gift shopping much easier for you.
#2 Start small
Maybe you or your partner are beginners when it comes to sex toys.
That’s why it’s a good idea to start with smaller gifts that aren’t necessarily sex toys, but can open up conversations about sex, desire, and pleasure – and what you’d like to explore together.
Try a game that gets the conversation going and guides you through fun and intimate questions. A vibrating cock ring is also a gentle way to try something new in the bedroom if you’re not quite sure what kind of sex toys your partner prefers.
If your partner loves wellness experiences, a luxurious massage oil can be the perfect solution.
#3 Keep it discreet and inviting
Beautiful packaging can make the gift even more appealing. Write a card or add a note letting your partner know you want to spoil them a little extra – and that you’re happy to help them use the product if that makes them feel more comfortable.
When you shop for sex toys at Sinful, we always ship in discreet packaging.
#4 Buy something for you as a couple
Once you’ve talked about what you both enjoy and would like to try, it’s a great idea to look for gifts you can use together as a couple.
A couple’s vibrator that stimulates you both at the same time is a great place to start. If you’re feeling adventurous, there’s everything from anal kits and mystery boxes to BDSM bundles filled with big and small surprises.
The most important thing to remember is that the gift shouldn’t feel like a demand — but rather an invitation to love, pleasure, and exploration for both of you.
#5 Give the gift in the right setting
Comfort and safety are key, so make sure your partner feels relaxed and at ease when you give the gift.
If you want to avoid awkward moments, don’t give sex toys when the whole family is gathered or while you’re out at a restaurant – that can quickly become uncomfortable.
Instead, give the gift during a cozy date night at home after a nice dinner, with candles lit and a calm, warm atmosphere.
Now you’re ready – good luck with the gift! We’re keeping our fingers crossed that it’ll be the beginning of many more great experiences together.
