CalExotics Venus Wireless Remote Control Butterfly Vibrator

I wore it out to the pub and handed my fella the remote…. Well all I’m going to say is WOW. It looks big and bulky but it fits nicely. It’s a bit noisy when you’re sat on a wooden bench!!

This product is fantastically shaped and made of very good materials, and has the best charging method. It is, however, troublesome how the straps are made; there are several points where the straps can, and will, open if they are twisted at an unfortunate angle, something that can happen during completely normal movements and especially during sex. You have to think for yourself and be careful about which way you put on the various straps, as the locking mechanism are almost like bikini straps that can be easily unhooked with just one finger. Simple geometric changes to the links, such as triangles so that you have to physically fiddle the straps in the opposite direction than what is natural when the straps are tightened, would make the product much safer. You should therefore just try it out and make sure that the product fits well even after you pull it a little in all angles and re-adjust the straps, and not least maybe put it on before foreplay happens as assembling can take 5 minutes and it’s frustrating to get through the first few times. It is also due to a poor choice of material and ties on the straps that are completely impossible to tighten without carefully taking the straps in and out of the various metal parts, and it is easy for a strap to come loose if it is pulled. All of this is incredibly badly thought out. On the other hand, the strengths and patterns in the vibrator are good, and the button is easy enough to reach, and you also have the remote control. The fact that the button is in the middle, in front, means that riding it can be be a little uncomfortable unless you place it carefully. All in all, it's worth the money, but I'm considering making my own straps.

Much less powerful than expected

I got this as a Christmas present from a male acquaintance. He wanted me to wear it when we are out eating, he is the one who has the remote control and controls the vibrations, exciting as a woman not to know when it vibrates in public. Agree with what other customers describe the straps, they are quite difficult to get in the beginning, but I notice that it gets better and better with the times, as long as you take a little time to get it to sit right, it's nice. I usually wear it at work, nice to sit in the office and enjoy without others noticing anything, extra kinky. ;)