Spreader Bars

For some people it can be a bit scary to breach into the universe of dominance play with a partner. It may feel like a big jump from from a sex life where both are equally in control. But it doesn’t have to be this way. You choose the rules - who is going to be the dominating part, what are the boundaries and which safeword should be used to stop the games if it goes a bit too far. In this way, the transition will be more smooth and you will be introduced to a completely new world of pleasure and satisfaction that can strengthen your relationship.  

A starting point when exploring with kinky dominance play is a spreader bar. It makes it possible for one part to keep arms and legs apart and outstretched so the dominating person has free access. A typical spreader bar bondage can be used in both a standing and lying position - or even with the submissive part on their knees. Make the play even hotter by including a blindfold, strengthening other senses for a more teasing and pleasurable surprise at every touch.  

A spreader bar comes in many shapes and sizes, and it can be used on the body in an array of different ways. There are models that can be used to only spread the legs or the arms, while others can do both at the same time. If you choose a spreader bar shaped like a cross, it can be used for both arms and legs at once. By attaching your partner to the cross, you can dominate and take control of their pleasure - a fantasy many people have. You can also limit the movements of the submissive with two separate spreader bars that can hold both arms and legs, but be used in different positions.

As long as both parties involved agree on the spreader bar being used for the dominance play, it is up to the dominant position to decide how it should be used. Should it only be used to limit movements or does it need to do more - for example including penetration while one part is tied up to it? There are plenty of naughty options and we can assure you that it will take your sexual experiences to new heights. 

If handcuffs or tape isn’t enough to control the leg movements of the submissive part, then a spreader bar BDSM is the perfect solution. It ensures that the legs are completely tied up while also being held apart. This reduces movement, options allowing the other part to take full control over that area of the body. Use the newly gained control as you please - either by teasing your partner until they almost reach an orgasm or maximising the pleasure completely. 

If you are unsure of which model to choose or have any questions related to our selection of spreader bars, you are more than welcome to contact our customer service. We are ready on both phone and email to help you out with anything you need. Whether you need guidance in choosing the right product for you or have any general questions about products or different types of sexual play. Our main priority is that you always get the best possible experience when shopping at Sinful.