Outdoor sex is becoming more and more popular – especially in the warm summer months when there's romance in the air and fewer layers in the way. It’s the perfect time to test a few boundaries under the open sky.
Although many fantasize about naughty moments on public grounds, not everyone has actually taken the plunge into this daring adventure - yet. Having outdoor sex can seem a bit nerve-wracking, and therefore, you might be somewhat hesitant when it comes to living out the fantasy in reality.
That little jolt of nervous excitement? That’s half the fun of getting frisky outside. You shouldn’t hold back if you're craving a bit of mischief away from home. With some tips and tricks, we help you bring your naughty fantasies about outdoor sex to life.
The first question you probably have is: Where can you have sex outdoors?
The Best Places For Outdoor Sex
If you’re curious about trying outdoor sex but not quite sure where to begin, here are some of the best places to give it a go – from sandy beaches to quiet woodland paths.
Sex On The Beach
The beach is one of the most iconic places for outdoor fun. It’s romantic, it’s steamy, and the combination of sunshine and minimal clothing can do wonders for your libido. Whether it’s a spontaneous quickie behind the dunes or slow kissing under the sunset, beach sex has a special kind of magic.
But while the beach offers the perfect backdrop for outdoor mischief, there are a few things to keep in mind. Beach sex is best when it’s warm, but that’s also when the coast is packed therefore privacy might be a challenge.
To avoid unwanted attention, look for a more secluded spot – maybe behind some rocks, in the tall dunes, or farther away from the main beach area. This might lower the chances of being interrupted by dog walkers, curious teenagers or unimpressed families out for a stroll.
One thing to think about is whether your sexy beach adventure should happen on the sand or in the water. Rolling around in the sand might sound hot in theory, but once you’ve got grains in places sand really shouldn’t be, the fantasy tends to fade fast. Beach sex and sand don’t always mix well.
Sex in the water, on the other hand, can be incredibly arousing – and surprisingly discreet. Other beachgoers can’t see what’s going on beneath the surface, so you’ve got a lot more freedom to play. Just remember to use a bit of lubricant before diving in – saltwater is definitely not nature’s best lube.
Pros:
Romantic setting.
Warm wheather and minimal clothing.
Cons:
- Crowded beaches can make privacy tricky.
Sand and saltwater can be uncomfortable.
Sex At The Lay-By
Lay-bys are a classic go-to for spontaneous outdoor action – especially if you're in the mood for a bit of car sex. If you’re alone with your partner and a sudden desire strikes, it’s easy to pull over, park up and let things heat up. From there, it’s entirely up to you whether you want to stay inside the car or step outside for a quick romp under the sky.
There are lay-bys all over the countryside and motorways, and it’s often surprisingly easy to find one where you can have your fun without any uninvited guests. They’re also popular spots for dogging, car sex and other types of outdoor mischief, so don’t be shocked if you’re not the only ones with the same idea. Whether that’s a bonus or a buzzkill is completely up to you to decide.
Pros:
Versatile options: in the car, outside, or even a nearby restroom.
Perfect for spontaneous car sex.
Works even in colder months if you stay in the car.
Cons:
Some lay-bys can get busy and lack privacy.
Sex In The Woods:
Forests offer endless possibilities for undisturbed outdoor fun, which is why sex in the woods remains a classic fantasy for many. With all those trees, hidden clearings and winding trails, it's usually easy to find a spot where no one will disturb you. A short walk off the beaten path is often all it takes to discover your own little hideaway.
There’s something wildly erotic about sex in the woods. Maybe it’s the fresh air, the scent of moss and pine, or the thrill of doing something a little forbidden. Whether you’re lying on a picnic blanket, pressed up against a tree or simply exploring each other standing, woodland adventures can feel both intimate and exhilarating. For extra thrill, some people love sneaking out at dusk when the woods feel especially mysterious.
Pros:
Easy to find privacy and low risk of being seen.
Plenty of beautiful woodland areas across the UK.
Cons:
Insects and wildlife may drop by uninvited.
Sex In The Bagyard
Your own backyard is the ideal place to give outdoor sex a try. It offers more privacy, comfort and a sense of safety that's all big bonuses if you're trying it for the first time. It’s a gentle way to start, and you can always work your way up to more daring spots later.
That said, it's worth being a little mindful of the neighbours. Keep noise levels low and be aware of sightlines — especially during the day. It's unlikely anyone will catch you in the act, but if they do, it could lead to an awkward conversation over the garden hedge.
Pros:
A great place to start.
Comfortable, familiar and private.
Cons:
Getting caught could make things awkward with the neighbours.
The Best Sex Toys For Outdoor Fun
Outdoor sex only gets better with a little extra spice – and the right sex toys can make the experience even more thrilling. Whether you're after a subtle buzz or something to keep things harder for longer, here are three great options for outdoor play. Always bring a bit of lube along – it makes everything feel better, especially when you're outside and things get adventurous.
Sinful 2-In-1 Love Egg
This silky-smooth vibrating egg from Sinful is made for discreet pleasure during outdoor sex. It’s inserted into the vagina, and the wireless remote lets you or your partner take control of the vibrations – even in public.
What makes this model truly unique is that the wireless remote can also be used as a clitoral and panty vibrator. In other words, you get two products in one purchase which can take you and your partner’s pleasure to new heights.
Sinful Rechargeable Mini Magic Wand
The Sinful Rechargeable Mini Magic Wand is small enough to slip into your bag when you're heading out for a bit of outdoor fun. Don't let its compact size fool you because the vibrations pack a serious punch.
It’s perfect for clitoral stimulation during steamy foreplay, or even to soothe your muscles after a particularly wild session in the grass.
Sinful Cock Ring Set
This Cock Ring Set from Sinful gives you three different sizes to play with, and they are a perfect add-on when you're planning some outdoor fun. They take up no space at all and can easily be slipped into a pocket or bag for spontaneous adventures.
Pop one on before the action starts to keep things firmer for longer. Whether you're rolling around in the grass or getting busy against a tree, these rings let you go all in.
How To Prepare For Outdoor Sex
Spontaneous outdoor sex sounds sexy – and it absolutely can be. But a little bit of preparation can turn a quick thrill into an unforgettable adventure. Here are a few handy tips and essentials to consider before heading off into nature.
- Blanket: An outdoor blanket is a must. Whether you're on the beach, in the woods or stretched out in a field, a soft surface makes everything much more comfortable. It also helps keep sand, grass and twigs from ending up in places they definitely shouldn't be.
- Lubricant: Lubricant always helps make sex more enjoyable and comfortable for everyone involved. This naturally applies when you’re outside too. Especially if you want a quickie without much foreplay, lubricant can be a big help.
- Condoms: Condoms are not just for pregnancy and STI prevention. They're also practical when it comes to clean-up. Without access to a shower, using a condom helps avoid any post-sex stickiness or awkwardness, especially in places where privacy is limited.
- Cleaning: If you're not using a condom, pack some wet wipes or tissues so you can freshen up afterwards. They're small, discreet and make a big difference.
- Sunscreen: This is especially important on hot summer days. If you're planning to strip off in the sun, make sure to apply sunscreen because sunburns is not sexy at all.
What Is Dogging?
Dogging is a sexual phenomenon that’s gained momentum in recent years. In short, it involves having sex with strangers outdoors, often in an organised but casual way, giving everyone involved a chance to explore their wildest public fantasies. It’s particularly popular within the swinger scene and tends to attract people aged 40 to 60 – a generation often drawn to the idea of connecting sex and nature.
There are known meeting spots in forests, parks, lay-bys and other quiet public places where dogging is more likely to happen. Some go to join in, some to watch, and others just to see what's the fuss about. Sometimes you might turn up and find no one else there – but that’s part of the game. If it’s quiet, you simply try the next location.
The term dogging actually originated in England and it refers to the idea of “walking the dog” – a convenient excuse used by participants to explain why they’re out and about… when really, they’re hoping for something a little more exciting than fresh air.
Is It Illegal to Have Sex In Public?
Public sex isn’t automatically illegal in the UK, but it can become a problem if someone sees you and is offended. You won’t be arrested just for having a cheeky moment outdoors, but if someone complains, you could be cautioned or fined under laws covering public indecency or indecent exposure. The important thing to remember is that the law is less about the act itself and more about whether it causes offence to others. That’s why discretion is everything. Pick your spot carefully, avoid busy areas, and keep an eye out for dog walkers, joggers or curious neighbours. If you're not seen, you’re unlikely to run into trouble. But don’t let the legal side put you off. Outdoor sex is absolutely possible, as long as you use your common sense and keep things low-key.
For more inspiration, check out our ultimate guide to sex positions for more inspiration and fun ideas to spice things up, whether you’re indoors or out.
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